Everyone has their own starting points.Though it can be quick to judge certain weights, etc etc. I always seen it as I was my own competition.Its safe to say though we all look at others, wish or hope they had x y z. Whether its something materialistic (which in my opinion I can go work for and get at any point..) or something you have to build for. Regardless, whatever it takes you have to go out and work for it. Recall- there are no easy quick fixes,no welfare lines. No one is going to give you these sexy muscles, and same goes for stuff or even money. All comes down, how hard do you want to work for something.
I'm not perfect by any means and I am not strong or even defined as much as I like. But knowing that, working towards that and being happy with that makes all the difference. Being happy with yourself is a huge starting point, which I feel most do not have. Lots of unhappy people that are out and about, that truly need to stop and smell the roses to realize what life is really about. Until then, its one big blob to them. Jealousy, crazy antics and pretty much acting like a bitchy selfish child. It is what it is. I know what I am. I know what I have worked for and have accomplished. I am pretty proud. No one can take that away from me.
At the end of the day, I look to beat my own goals, my own strengths, build on my own self. What others have is awesome and great, but in reality working on myself helps the world around me. I tend to want to work for a better self, better center and pretty much by doing this makes a positive world around me. Ever realize why these miserable people are surrounded by misery?
Since life is just far too short to deal with jealousy, childish games, living above the hate like I wrote in last post, living to my own standards that are in my own head and constantly WORKING, building, and growing myself. Its a happy time. Happy life. And I am not afraid to say I am feeling wonderful about the person I am. I am a hardworking chica, with 4 college degrees, working for a global corporation, respected valued individual, in work, friends, family, at the gym and around the barn. Show the love, share it and work hard. But give up the jealousy it truly doesn't lead anyone to the path of happiness. Find your own competition. Jot down your goals and work for them. Be proud of your accomplishments.
Chin up. Although it might be rainy today, its one day to a few other goals I have. Stay tuned :)